Friday, August 15, 2008

Tick Fest 2008

Last month, we went up to New London, CT for a family reunion. My mom and aunt Kathy refer to this now yearly even as "Camp Cousins". It's a happy name, and it refers to the fact that 1) there are a mess of cousins and 2) almost everyone sleeps out in a tent in grandma's backyard for the week. (Luckily, having children under the age of 3 and/or being pregnant exempts you from this. We stayed in a beach house 10 minutes away. Yay us!)

I'm going to refer to this yearly event as "Tick Fest" instead and here's why. There are at least 3 people who have not only been bit by ticks in this yard in recent years, but have actually gotten Lyme Disease. My uncle Barry, my grandmother and my own mother. So 7 children plus all their parents, grandparents, great aunts and uncles and even great grandparents are hanging out in this yard for days on end. But every 2 minutes you hear my mom or aunt yelling "Check that kid for ticks!", "don't sit on the grass!", "you're gonnna need to strip down and really look because ticks are tiny!" Jesus Christ.

So anyway, we take the train up and got in really late, so the fun begins for us the next day. We take an hour drive through the winding Connecticut countryside, then turn into a national forest and drive another 15 minutes over an unpaved road. We get there you will never guess who else is there:

It's the Crips, and they are having a pic-a-nic. Did anybody know that the Crips go for picnics in Connecticut? Luckily, the Bloods playing golf in Vermont or something, and everyone had a great time.
Here's Caden "catching" his first fish. He was so excited and damn it was cute. When he finally saw the fish come out of the water he said "Hi Nemo!" Thankfully, everyone had the good sense to let Nemo back into the water rather than killing him on the spot, saving us years of therapy bills.


Pete was having a good time. Bethany not so much.


The rest of the time was spent mostly just hanging out together at Grandma's, eating constantly and watching the kids play together. It was more exciting than it sounds because everyone really likes each other and we don't see my cousins and their kids that often.
It was about 100 degrees out, so somebody had the great idea to fill some buckets and coolers with water for the little kids to cool off. Tucker and Ava stripped down and hopped right in, but not Caden. He's a sophisticated little guy, and would no sooner sit naked in a bucket on the front lawn than I would. So he made it his job to make sure the buckets were full, and he also very thoughtfully sprayed everyone's feet and pants for them.

Of course, the other big thing was for all the kids to fling themselves down Grandma's hill. I used to do this when I was a kid with my siblings and cousins. It's always been the big deal at grandma's. I even made a little movie about it. Last year it was the older kids who ruled the hill. But this year, the little guys got in on the act. So did a few spouses.

In all, Tick Fest was a really good time, and nobody got Lyme Disease. I'm so glad we went, even though the week before had been so rough. Unfortunately, 5 more people got sick afterwards, and I know for a fact that Caden was the Typhoid Mary. Oh well. In 20 years when we're looking at the photos, we won't remember which kid it was, exactly, that gave everyone strep throat that year.

Friday, August 1, 2008

Photo of the Day

No. Indeed it's not.

Thursday, July 24, 2008

The Stupidity Continues

Without skipping a beat, the stupidity continues to this day at our house. All last week, Caden had a really high fever and Pete and I took turns staying home from work with him. To further complicate things, we were supposed to be heading up to New London, Connecticut for a family reunion early Friday morning. It was touch and go, and at one point we'd made up our minds that Pete would stay home with Caden and I would just go by myself. So we cancelled their train reservations and I switched mine to leave Friday afternoon and come back earlier than planned. Then by Friday afternoon Caden was fine, so we bought them tickets again (more expensive of course), and re-reserved the rental car (double the price), and hauled ass up to CT on the train.

I have to say here that Caden was SUCH a trooper about the whole thing and he deserves ice cream every night until he's at least 7 years old. I'm so glad we made it and I'll write more about the weekend in my next post.

... But back to the stupidity. On monday morning I wake up with Caden's fever and Pete has pink eye by the time we get home. Sweet.

Back in the Saddle Again...

A few weeks ago I got an email out of the blue from one of my brides. I shot Jennifer and Matt's wedding a few years ago and really liked them. They'd since both done tours of duty in the military, had a baby, moved overseas, and then come back. She was wondering if I could take some family photos.
It was really nice to get back behind the camera for a while, and the whole thing was easy since we already had a good photographer/photographee(?) relationship. And god bless them, they've agreed to be my guinea pigs on a sound-with-photo idea that I have. More on that later.

Thanks Jen and Matt!


Saturday, July 12, 2008

This Week was Stupid

This whole past week was just annoying and stupid. I'm going to summarize here so hopefully I can clear the bad juju and get on with things.

The badness begins on Saturday when I get a stupid haircut. It's all uneven and weird looking, plus she didn't thin out the ends. I have really thick hair, so when you don't thin out the ends, it looks all puffy and blocky. In short, I'm suffering from triangle head.

Same Saturday: We go to a bbq, only to have Caden announce 20 minutes later that he wants to go home and then stands at the door. We fight this fight for about half an hour until it's clear nobody will have any fun. We leave.

Tuesday: Caden throws the biggest screaming tantrum I have ever seen. On the front lawn. Neighbors stop their yard work to watch.

Wednesday: Okay, so I am about 7 months pregnant, and your body does weird things when you're pregnant. You know that red dot on my forehead? I call it my bindi, or my third eye of consciousness. Not to ruin the mystique, but it's really a blood vessel close to the top of my skin. Well, another one randomly crops up right above my lip a few weeks ago. On Wednesday at noon it pops, and blood starts pouring out of my face. I have to keep a towel pressed to it or else all hell breaks loose. It keeps going and going. I go through work like this. I have to walk into Caden's school like this to pick him up. We get home and I'm trying to get all of our bags and junk through the door with one hand like this. I have to let go in order to get milk and snacks. Blood pouring into my mouth. I knock over a WHOLE CONTAINER of juice in the refrigerator. I loose it. Finally stop bleeding at 10:00 that night.

Thursday: Very nice huge red scab on my lip. And remember my stupid triangle hair?

Friday: Go to different salon to get hair fixed. Come out looking like Carol Brady circa 1978. Only puffier on top. 

See what I mean? STUPID.

Friday, June 20, 2008

Our Little Green Frog

Caden is starting "preschool" at the JCC on Monday. Last night I went for the parent orientation, and I'm pretty sure that I'm going the be the one crying when we drop him off for his first day. I'm going to blame it on pregnancy hormones. The place is wonderful, the teachers and counselors are all sent straight from heaven, and they get to play in the sprinkler every day. He's so ready for this, and I know he's going to thrive. But then we went on a tour of their classrooms, and I saw this:It's the name tag on his cubby in the classroom, ready and waiting for him. He's in the "little green frogs" group. I took one look at it and just cried and cried. Luckily, I was the only one in the room at the time. Sheesh...

Wednesday, June 18, 2008

Korean Ladies Know Some Stuff

So for the second time this month, a Korean lady has taken one look at me and said "You're having a boy." How do they know this?

Yesterday, I was standing in line at Old Navy, when I suddenly feel a hand on my belly which I'll admit was a little surprising. That never happened with Caden. Anyway, it was this Korean grandma smiling at me and she told me I was having a boy. Correct. Then she was saying something about how I'm very young. Uhm... not correct. So aparantly her gift has nothing to do with actual eye sight.

The first time it happened was a few weeks ago when I went to get a pedicure. Pretty much the same thing went down, only she didn't even need to touch me. She just took one look at me and told me I was having a boy. I asked her how she knew, and she said it's because I'm small. Hahaha. Also not correct. But I tipped her a thousand dollars.